Foundations for Ministry

Know the faith • Module 1

Know God Before You Lead

The most valuable thing you bring to ministry is a life that is learning to know, trust, and follow Jesus.

Purpose: Understand why theological learning matters and connect your desire to serve with the life you are already living.

Read in your NIV Bible: Mark 10:35–45; John 17:1–5; 1 Timothy 4:12–16. You can read each passage as you reach its section below.

Allow about 25–35 minutes for the reading and reflection, then complete the existing Module 1 worksheet at another sitting. Complete every reflection pause and record a brief response to each question in your worksheet or notebook.

You have something worth developing

Perhaps you have followed Jesus for years. You have experienced answered prayer, worked through difficult seasons, served people, and learned things about God that no classroom could have taught you in quite the same way. Now you want a stronger foundation. You want to understand what you believe, explain it more clearly, and become more useful in helping others follow Christ.

That is a worthwhile desire. Formal theological education may be new to you; walking with Jesus is not. This course gives you a way to connect your experience with a clearer understanding of Scripture. You will have opportunities to recognize truths you already live by, reconsider assumptions, and discover language for things you have struggled to explain.

Think of someone whose Christian influence has helped you. What made that person trustworthy? Perhaps they knew Scripture well. Perhaps they listened without rushing you, admitted when they were wrong, or remained faithful when life became painful. Their influence probably reached you through the connection between what they believed and how they lived.

That connection is what we want to develop here. As your understanding grows, it should become something another person can experience through your patience, judgment, encouragement, and care.

Pause: Who has helped you know Jesus more clearly? What did their life make believable about their words?

Theology already shapes your everyday life

The word theology can sound like a subject reserved for people with degrees and shelves full of thick books. In this course, theology means learning to understand what God has revealed about Himself and how everything else relates to Him. Scripture is our primary source and authority for that learning.

You already carry beliefs about God into ordinary situations. When you fail, you have some understanding of how God responds. When someone hurts you, you have beliefs about justice, forgiveness, and reconciliation. When you pray, you have expectations about whether God hears, whether He cares, and what you can honestly bring before Him.

Those beliefs affect your choices even when you have never stopped to put them into words.

Imagine a Christian who has fallen into the same sin again. He says, “I know God forgave me before, but surely He is tired of me now.” You want to help. To respond wisely, you need more than a reassuring tone. You need some understanding of grace, repentance, Christ’s saving work, and the difference between struggling against sin and making peace with it.

You also need to listen. The person may need encouragement, a difficult truth, practical accountability, or help he has been afraid to request. Sound theology gives substance to your care; patient attention helps you understand how to offer it.

This is why studying doctrine can be deeply practical. A clearer understanding of God can change the conversation you have at the kitchen table, the way you respond to criticism, and the hope you offer someone who is discouraged.

Knowing God is personal

Read John 17:1–5.

Jesus is praying to the Father as the hour of His death approaches. In this prayer, He describes eternal life in terms of knowing the Father and Jesus Christ, whom the Father sent. The knowledge He describes belongs within the saving relationship He gives His people.

We can learn accurate facts about someone while remaining strangers. We can also claim closeness to someone while paying very little attention to who that person actually is. Christian growth calls us to something richer: knowing God truly and responding to Him with trust, worship, love, and obedience.

Learning about God matters because the God we trust has a real character. We do not get to assemble Him from the traits we find comfortable. As we learn what He has revealed, our understanding can become more accurate and our relationship with Him more deeply rooted in truth.

For example, learning that God is holy may expose a habit you have been excusing. Learning that He is merciful may help you bring that habit into the light. Learning that Christ welcomes His people to the Father may give you courage to pray honestly rather than perform a version of yourself you think God will accept.

A useful question throughout this course will be: What does this truth invite me to trust, confess, receive, or do? Sometimes the response will be a new conviction. Sometimes it will be an apology, a changed habit, a more honest prayer, or a better question.

You do not have to manufacture an emotional experience every time you study. Some truths take time to settle into your life. Keep paying attention. Understanding can deepen through repeated reading, conversation, obedience, and the ordinary experience of depending on God.

Pause: When have you learned something about God that changed the way you approached Him?

Jesus gives service its shape

Read Mark 10:35–45.

James and John ask for places of honor beside Jesus in His glory. Their request comes in the same chapter in which Jesus has been teaching His disciples about His coming suffering and death. They are following Him, yet their expectations still need to be reshaped.

When the other disciples become indignant, Jesus gathers them and addresses the whole group. He describes rulers who use authority to dominate. Among His disciples, greatness will take the form of service. Then He points to His own mission: the Son of Man came to serve and give His life as a ransom for many.

That final statement is essential. Jesus is more than an inspiring example of humility. His death accomplishes a rescue that our service never could. We come to Him as people who need saving, and we learn His way of life as people who receive His grace. Our ministry does not earn our place with Him.

That gives us freedom to serve without constantly proving ourselves. We can help with a task that brings little recognition. We can admit a mistake before someone discovers it. We can support another person’s growth even when they receive the opportunity we hoped for. Our usefulness matters, but it does not have to carry the weight of establishing our worth.

A desire to lead often contains several motives. You may love people, enjoy teaching, hope to make a difference, and appreciate being appreciated. Honest reflection helps you recognize those motives and bring them to Christ. You can ask Him to grow what is good and confront what would eventually harm you or the people you serve.

Begin where responsibility is already present. The way you listen at home, keep a promise, prepare for a volunteer assignment, or respond when plans change gives you real opportunities to follow Jesus. Those moments are part of your formation for ministry.

Pause: Where could you serve someone’s good this week without needing them to notice how much you contributed?

Give attention to your life and your teaching

Read 1 Timothy 4:12–16.

Timothy already has ministry responsibilities. Paul encourages him to set an example in conduct and character, attend to Scripture and teaching, and devote himself to growth that others can see. He joins careful attention to Timothy’s life with careful attention to what Timothy teaches.

That is a helpful pattern for your own development. You can grow in biblical knowledge while becoming more patient. You can learn to explain salvation while becoming more honest about your need for grace. You can practice teaching a passage while learning to receive correction about it.

Paul’s strong language about saving himself and his hearers does not make Timothy a replacement for Christ. God uses faithful gospel ministry as a means through which people hear, believe, and persevere. Timothy’s responsibility matters because people are affected by what he teaches and the life that accompanies it.

This gives theological learning both seriousness and purpose. Someone may eventually trust you with a question that has kept them awake at night. Someone may hear your explanation of Scripture and build a decision around it. Careful preparation is one way to love those people before the conversation even happens.

You will not be ready for every question at the end of this course. Experienced pastors still encounter questions that require further study. What you can develop is the ability to explain important truths clearly, recognize the limits of your understanding, and seek help without pretending.

There is real encouragement in Paul’s expectation of progress. Growth can become visible. You can learn to listen more carefully, explain a passage more faithfully, and carry a responsibility with greater steadiness. Bring willingness and honesty to the process, and make room for others to help you.

Put this into practice

Use the existing Module 1 worksheet. Keep the assignment focused:

1. Write your starting reflection. In about one page, explain what draws you toward ministry, what you hope to understand more clearly, and one ordinary responsibility where you want to become more faithful.
2. Choose one act of service. Encourage someone, help with a practical need, or take responsibility for something you would normally leave to another person. Choose an appropriate action that serves their good without creating an obligation to thank you.
3. Reflect afterward. What did you notice about your motives, your response, or the other person’s needs? A simple, honest observation is enough.

Keep other people’s private information out of your written work. Bring your reflection and one example of service to your mentor conversation after Module 2.

Questions to carry into the conversation

• What does Jesus’ ransom accomplish that my service never can?
• What would still make this course worthwhile if it did not lead to a position?

Required theology teaching

Gerry Breshears: Why Study Systematic Theology, lesson 1 of A Guide to Christian Theology. Watch this required lesson and record one insight connecting theology with everyday faith, plus one question to discuss with your mentor.

Before you move on

Your desire to become more useful in ministry can begin bearing fruit now. This week, you can understand one truth more clearly, offer one thoughtful act of care, and become more honest about an area where you need to grow.

As you move through the course, keep bringing your learning back to Jesus and to the people around you. Ask what you are coming to understand about Him, how that understanding is changing you, and who might benefit from the care you are learning to give.

That is meaningful progress. It is worth giving yourself to.

Prayer: Father, thank You for making Yourself known through Jesus. Help me understand Your Word and trust You more deeply. Give me a willing heart, a teachable mind, and attention to the people You have placed in my life. Show me where I need to grow, and help me take a faithful step this week. Amen.

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Know the faith • Module 2

Read Scripture with care

God’s Word forms us as we understand it faithfully and respond to it honestly.

Purpose: Become someone who can explain a passage without making it say what you want.

Begin with Scripture

2 Timothy 3:14–17; Luke 24:13–35; James 1:19–25. Read in context in your NIV Bible.

You can become a more careful reader

Someone asks you a Bible question, and a verse immediately comes to mind. You remember hearing it in a sermon. You know roughly where it is. You are fairly sure it answers the question. Then you open the chapter and discover that the surrounding passage is about something different.

That moment can be uncomfortable, but it can also become the beginning of better reading. You have found an opportunity to examine an assumption. A person who learns to do that consistently becomes more trustworthy with Scripture.

You do not need to know Greek or own a commentary collection to begin. You need attention, patience, and a willingness to let the passage lead. Resources will help as your questions develop. The first habit is to notice what is actually there before deciding what you want to say about it.

This module gives you a repeatable way to read. The aim is confidence with humility: enough confidence to explain what you have understood, and enough humility to keep learning.

God speaks for a purpose

Read 2 Timothy 3:14–17. Begin a few verses earlier if you can, so you hear Paul’s concern about deception and faithfulness.

Paul reminds Timothy of what he has learned and of the sacred writings he has known since childhood. Those writings can make him wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. Paul then describes Scripture as breathed out by God and useful for teaching, correction, and training that equips God’s servant for good work.

Notice the connection between Scripture and a life prepared to serve. The passage does not invite us merely to collect impressive information. God’s Word can expose an error, correct a direction, form a habit, and equip a person to act faithfully. Its authority belongs in everyday obedience as well as doctrinal explanation.

Inspiration names God’s work through the human authors of Scripture. Those authors used languages, literary forms, memories, research, and particular occasions. A letter addresses an actual audience. A poem uses images. A narrative selects events and arranges them meaningfully. God’s action does not make those human features irrelevant; it makes careful attention to them worthwhile.

Interpretation is our work of understanding what a passage communicates. God’s truthfulness does not make our first impression infallible. When we admit that distinction, we can receive correction without feeling that Scripture itself is under attack.

Pause: When you read a passage, do you usually ask what it means, or move immediately to what you could say about it?

Use the Four C’s

RHCC’s Foundations material gives you four useful questions: Context, Content, Christ, and Commitment. Take them in that order. Each protects the next from becoming detached from the passage.

Context: Who is speaking or writing? Who receives the message? What situation is being addressed? What comes before and after? What kind of literature are you reading? These questions help you hear a passage as part of a communication rather than as an isolated sentence.

A proverb expresses wisdom in a different way from a command in a letter. A vision may communicate through symbols, while a historical account may tell you about an event without commanding you to repeat it. Recognizing the kind of writing helps you understand how it tells the truth.

Content: What does the passage actually say? Look for repeated words, contrasts, explanations, actions, and reasons. In a letter, follow the argument. In a story, follow what happens and how the narrator presents it. Write down observations before interpreting them. There is a difference between “the text says this” and “I think this may suggest that.”

Christ: How does this passage belong within the biblical story that reaches its fulfillment in Jesus? Sometimes that connection is explicit. Sometimes you need the larger movement of creation, covenant, sin, promise, redemption, and new creation. Read the passage on its own terms before relating it to the whole story. You do not need to make every number, object, or character a hidden symbol of Jesus.

Commitment: What faithful response follows from the meaning you have understood? The response may involve belief, trust, repentance, worship, reconciliation, or action. Make it specific enough to practice. Application should grow from the passage rather than from a problem you were already determined to address.

A familiar verse becomes richer in context

Read Philippians 4:10–20. You may recognize verse 13 as a statement about strength through Christ. Listen to the verses around it.

Paul is thanking the Philippians for their care. He explains that he has learned contentment in very different circumstances, including both abundance and need. His confidence in Christ belongs within that account of dependence and contentment. The passage does not guarantee that every ambition will succeed.

That context gives the verse a strong application. A believer can depend on Christ while facing circumstances he would not have chosen. The person struggling with disappointment needs that truth more than a promise that faith will secure every desired outcome.

You can now see the Four C’s at work. Context identifies Paul’s circumstances and his relationship with the church. Content shows his emphasis on contentment and their generosity. Christ is the source of his strength. Commitment might include learning gratitude, practicing generosity, or trusting Christ while a difficult circumstance continues.

Pause: What changed when you read the whole paragraph? Did the passage become less useful, or useful in a more faithful way?

Let Scripture correct expectations

Read Luke 24:13–35. The two disciples know many of the events surrounding Jesus’ death, but they have not understood what those events mean. Their hopes and the reality in front of them seem impossible to reconcile.

Jesus meets them in that confusion. He listens, challenges their understanding, and explains the Scriptures in relation to the Messiah’s suffering and glory. The account shows how people can know facts while still needing their expectations reshaped by God’s Word.

That should make us patient with ourselves and with others. A sincere reader may misunderstand a passage. A long-time Christian may repeat an explanation that needs correction. You can be willing to revise a conclusion because your trust belongs to God, rather than to your ability to have been right the first time.

Good questions help. What in the passage supports that claim? Is there another explanation that accounts for the details better? Have I confused a description with a command? Am I applying a promise to a situation the passage does not address? When you do not know, identify the question and seek help.

Read as someone who intends to respond

Read James 1:19–25. James connects receiving God’s Word with doing it. Hearing can become self-deception when we treat exposure to truth as though it were already obedience.

You can prepare an accurate lesson on patience while refusing to hear your spouse. You can explain generosity while protecting every comfort. You can defend Scripture’s authority while avoiding a passage that confronts you. Careful interpretation should make that evasion harder, because it brings the meaning into focus.

This week, prepare your explanation of Philippians 4:10–20 using the existing worksheet. Then choose an application for yourself before imagining how you would teach it to someone else. Perhaps you need to thank a person whose generosity you have taken for granted. Perhaps you need to acknowledge how closely your contentment follows your circumstances.

Your goal is a faithful explanation and an honest response. Bring both to the conversation. If feedback improves your reading, revise it. Every time you practice that process, you become better equipped to help another person hear Scripture with understanding.

Words to know: Inspiration: God’s work through Scripture’s human authors. Interpretation: discerning a text’s intended communication. Application: responding faithfully to that meaning in our setting.

Think it through

Someone uses Philippians 4:13 to promise success in any venture. Read Philippians 4:10–20. How does Paul’s discussion of contentment change your explanation?

Put it into practice

Prepare one page on Philippians 4:10–20 using the Four C’s. Include three observations, the passage’s central point, one application for yourself, and one question you cannot yet answer. Explain it aloud in three minutes.

Bring to conversation

• Which details support your interpretation?
• How would you respond if your mentor showed you something you missed?

What to bring: A passage worksheet and a three-minute explanation corrected after feedback.

Prayer: Ask for careful attention, humility about your assumptions, and willingness to obey.

Companion video: BibleProject: Literary Styles in the Bible. After watching, identify one point clarified and one question to check against the passages.

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Know the faith • Module 3

Know the God you represent

The one God has made Himself known as Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

Purpose: Develop a clear account of God that strengthens worship and prayer.

Begin with Scripture

Deuteronomy 6:4–9; Exodus 34:5–9; Matthew 3:13–17; John 1:1–18; Matthew 28:18–20. Read in context in your NIV Bible.

Your picture of God reaches into everything

Consider what happens when you prepare to pray. Before you choose a single word, you already have some expectation of the One who hears you. You may approach Him eagerly, cautiously, or with the assumption that He is disappointed before you begin.

Those expectations can be shaped by Scripture, but also by family relationships, painful experiences, favorite teachers, and things you have repeated for years without examining. Growing in your knowledge of God gives you an opportunity to bring that picture into the light.

Some theological learning introduces an unfamiliar idea. Other learning helps you recognize that a familiar word carries more meaning than you have understood. This module does both. You will consider God’s character and begin putting the doctrine of the Trinity into clear language.

You do not need an explanation that removes every mystery. You need an understanding that is faithful enough to guide worship, prayer, and the way you speak about God to others.

Begin with the God who makes Himself known

Read Exodus 34:5–9. The setting matters. Israel has sinned by worshiping the golden calf. Moses has interceded, and the question of God’s presence with His people has become urgent.

When God proclaims His name and character, mercy, patience, faithful love, and justice belong together. He does not reveal Himself as indifferent to evil. He also does not describe mercy as a weakness someone has persuaded Him to accept. His goodness is deeper than the alternatives we sometimes place before Him.

You may find one part of that description easier to trust than another. Some people readily affirm judgment but struggle to believe God welcomes repentant sinners. Others welcome mercy but become uncomfortable when God confronts what they prefer to excuse. Scripture teaches us to receive the God who speaks, including the aspects of His character that correct our preferences.

When we study God’s attributes, we are considering true descriptions of His character and being. He is faithful; He does not become unreliable when circumstances change. He is holy; His goodness cannot be negotiated into approval of evil. He is merciful; our need does not surprise Him. These descriptions help us trust the same God across the different circumstances of life.

Pause: Which aspect of God’s character do you most need to remember right now? Which aspect do you tend to soften or avoid?

God is one

Read Deuteronomy 6:4–9. Israel’s confession of the one Lord is followed by a call to love Him with the whole life and to carry His words into daily relationships and routines.

The oneness of God is foundational to Christian belief. We do not worship competing divine beings who divide the world between them. Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are not three gods cooperating on a common project. There is one God.

This truth also gives coherence to faith. Your life does not belong to one god at church and another in business or family life. The Lord who deserves your worship also deserves your trust, honesty, and allegiance in ordinary decisions. The passage itself moves from confession to conversation at home and along the road.

Yet the Bible’s testimony does not stop with the confession that God is one. The New Testament requires us to say more about who this one God is.

The Father, Son, and Spirit are distinct

Read Matthew 3:13–17. At Jesus’ baptism, the Son is in the water, the Spirit descends, and the Father speaks. The account presents genuine distinction. The Father is not the Son, and the Spirit is not simply another name for the Son.

That matters when someone describes God as changing costumes: Father in one period, Son in another, Spirit in another. Jesus’ baptism does not fit that explanation. Nor do the many passages in which Jesus prays to the Father or speaks of sending the Spirit.

Distinction, however, does not mean divided deity. Read John 1:1–18. John says the Word was with God and was God. He identifies this Word with the One who became flesh and dwelt among us. Jesus’ divine identity does not begin when people recognize Him. The Son who becomes human is already present in John’s opening account of creation.

The Spirit also belongs within this divine identity. In Acts 5:1–4, Peter describes lying to the Holy Spirit as lying to God. The Spirit acts personally throughout the New Testament: teaching, guiding, giving gifts, and being grieved. We will return to His work in a later module.

Put the truths together carefully

Read Matthew 28:18–20. Jesus commands baptism in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. The three belong together in the confession and life of the church.

The word Trinity expresses the church’s effort to speak faithfully about this biblical witness: there is one God, eternally existing as three distinct persons, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Each is fully God. The Father is not the Son; the Son is not the Spirit; the Spirit is not the Father.

In this setting, “person” identifies real distinction within God. It does not mean three separate beings like three members of a human committee. Each person is fully divine rather than one-third divine. We are holding together truths Scripture gives us, even though God’s being exceeds the categories of our ordinary experience.

That is why common object illustrations often create problems. Water changing form can suggest one person changing roles. Different parts of an object can suggest that each person is only part of God. You do not need to find an object that makes God feel manageable. A clear statement with biblical support is more helpful than an illustration that quietly changes the doctrine.

Pause: Can you affirm both the oneness of God and the distinction of Father, Son, and Spirit without making either disappear?

This doctrine belongs in prayer

It may seem that we have traveled a long way from the everyday experience of praying. In fact, the Trinity helps explain why Christian prayer is possible.

Read Ephesians 2:13–18. Paul describes access to the Father through Christ in one Spirit. The passage concerns Christ bringing estranged people near and creating peace. Your access to God rests within His saving action.

You do not approach a reluctant Father by persuading a kinder Son to distract Him. The Father loves and sends; the Son willingly comes and gives Himself; the Spirit brings God’s presence and life to His people. The persons act in unity. Your welcome is grounded in the gracious work of the one God.

You also do not need to rank the persons by how divine they are or decide which one matters most. Learning to speak accurately can deepen gratitude: you can thank the Father for receiving you, the Son for reconciling you, and the Spirit for helping you live in that grace.

This week, write a short explanation of the Trinity in ordinary language. Use the biblical passages rather than an object analogy. Then turn your study into prayer. Notice what becomes clearer about the God to whom you come.

Understanding will continue to grow. For now, you are learning something valuable: how to say what God has revealed with confidence, and how to let the mystery of His greatness lead you toward worship rather than pretense.

Words to know: Trinity: one God in three distinct persons. Attribute: a true description of God’s character or being. Revelation: God making Himself known.

Think it through

A group member says, ‘God was the Father in the Old Testament, became Jesus, and now is the Spirit.’ Use Jesus’ baptism to explain what that account misses without humiliating the person.

Put it into practice

Write a 120-word explanation of the Trinity without using an object analogy. Underline the biblical evidence for unity and distinction. Pray slowly through Ephesians 2:18, thanking Father, Son, and Spirit for access to God.

Bring to conversation

• Where do you tend to separate God’s mercy from His holiness?
• What can you affirm clearly while admitting that God exceeds your understanding?

What to bring: A concise explanation that avoids three gods, divided deity, and changing roles.

Prayer: Thank God for making Himself known and receiving you through Christ.

Companion video: BibleProject: God. After watching, identify one point clarified and one question to check against the passages.

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Know the faith • Module 4

See people truthfully and love them well

People bear God’s image and need God’s grace; both truths shape Christian care.

Purpose: Hold human dignity and human sin together when you care for someone.

Begin with Scripture

Genesis 1:26–31; Genesis 3:1–13; Romans 3:9–26; James 3:7–12; Romans 12:9–16. Read in context in your NIV Bible.

Learning to see the person in front of you

You are helping with a church activity, and someone makes the work harder. They arrive late, ask questions you thought you had already answered, or seem uninterested in what needs to happen. Before long, you have an explanation for them: careless, demanding, difficult.

Sometimes a concern is accurate. Responsibilities really can be neglected. But an explanation formed quickly can become a label that keeps you from learning anything else about the person.

Christian teaching about humanity gives you a better starting point. Every person you encounter has dignity that comes from God. Every person also shares the human need for grace. Holding those truths together helps you care without contempt and tell the truth without pretending everything is fine.

This module asks you to connect what you believe about human beings with how you listen, speak, correct, and serve.

Dignity comes before usefulness

Read Genesis 1:26–31. The account identifies human beings, male and female, as made in God’s image. They receive responsibility within His creation and His blessing upon their life.

Being made in God’s image gives human life a significance that no achievement can create. A person matters before they become useful to your ministry. Their dignity is not measured by income, educational level, physical capacity, popularity, or how easily they contribute to an event.

The image also carries a calling. Human beings are entrusted with life in God’s world as His representatives. We are made for relationship with Him and for responsible life with one another. The doctrine speaks both to worth and to vocation: who we are and how we should live.

Read James 3:7–12. James brings this truth into the words that leave our mouths. Blessing God while cursing people made in His likeness is a serious contradiction. The person you find irritating still bears the likeness James tells you to honor.

Think about the conversations that happen after a meeting, while driving home, or when a volunteer has disappointed you. A phrase can make a person seem smaller: “She’s always drama,” or “He’s just useless.” Such language can feel like harmless frustration while slowly training you to see someone as a problem rather than a neighbor.

Pause: Is there someone you usually describe through one failure, one inconvenience, or one difficult trait?

Sin tells the truth about all of us

Read Genesis 3:1–13. The story shows distrust of God, disobedience, shame, hiding, and blame. Relationships that were gifts become places of fear and accusation.

Sin includes specific wrong actions, but Scripture’s diagnosis reaches deeper than a list of mistakes. We resist God’s authority, reorder our loves, and seek life on our own terms. Our conduct grows from hearts that need more than improved information.

Read Romans 3:9–26. Paul gathers the whole human family under the reality of sin and directs attention to God’s saving action in Christ. No group gets to become the superior class of people who need less mercy.

That should affect the way you address another person’s wrongdoing. You may need to confront something real, set a boundary, or insist on a clear expectation. You do so as someone who also depends on grace. Moral clarity does not require moral superiority.

Human dignity and human sin do not cancel each other. You can honor a person while disagreeing with them. You can recognize wrongdoing while refusing contempt. You can offer help while acknowledging that some choices need to change.

Be careful, too, about connecting suffering with personal fault. People experience injury, grief, injustice, illness, and limitations they did not choose. Before deciding that someone needs correction, learn what is actually happening.

Compassion begins with attention

Read Romans 12:9–16. Paul describes sincere love in a community that honors, serves, rejoices, grieves, and practices hospitality. This is love with enough attention to respond to a person’s actual situation.

The empathy material in Follow Me is useful here. Empathy involves seeking to understand another person’s experience. You cannot know everything it feels like to be them, but you can ask, listen, and check whether you have understood.

Imagine the volunteer who has been arriving late. You might begin, “I’ve noticed you arrived after we started the last two times. Is something making that difficult?” The question acknowledges an observable concern and leaves room for an answer.

Perhaps the person is careless about the commitment. Perhaps they depend on a ride, are caring for a family member, or misunderstood the arrival time. You will respond more wisely after learning which situation you are addressing. The expectation can remain clear while the response becomes more appropriate.

Listening well often requires slowing the urge to fix. You may hear the first sentence and already have three solutions ready. Try asking one more question before offering them. Reflect back what you heard: “It sounds as though the hardest part is not the task itself, but feeling that nobody knows what you’re carrying. Have I understood that?”

Pause: When someone describes a struggle, what do you tend to do first: investigate, advise, compare, reassure, or listen?

Understanding is compatible with responsibility

Compassion does not require you to agree with every interpretation a person offers. Someone can be hurt and still misunderstand another person’s motives. Someone can have a difficult week and still need to apologize. Good care gives room for both understanding and truth.

It also does not require you to take over every burden. Galatians 6:1–5 holds together restoring someone gently, bearing burdens, and taking responsibility. Helping well requires judgment about what support is needed and what responsibility should remain with the person.

You may offer practical assistance, help clarify a next step, or connect someone with a more appropriate leader. You can admit that a situation exceeds your experience. A growing ministry leader does not have to become the answer to every need.

People often remember whether you made room for their answer. Your willingness to listen can create trust in which truth becomes easier to discuss. It also protects you from offering a biblical answer to a question the person was not asking.

Practice one attentive conversation

This week, choose an ordinary conversation with someone who is willing to talk. You do not need to seek a crisis or ask for private disclosures. A friend describing a challenging week provides plenty of room to practice.

Ask an open question. Listen without preparing your response. Summarize what you heard and check whether it is accurate. Before advising, ask whether the person would find suggestions helpful or would prefer you simply to listen.

Afterward, use your worksheet to reflect on your own learning. What assumption changed? What did you notice only because you waited? What would you do differently next time? Leave names and private details out of the written account.

Theological understanding becomes meaningful here. The person before you bears God’s image. You both need His grace. You can offer care with humility because you are learning to receive that same care yourself. A single thoughtful conversation can become a small, real expression of what you believe.

Words to know: Image of God: humanity’s God-given likeness and representative vocation. Sin: rebellion against God expressed in our condition and conduct. Empathy: attentive effort to understand another person’s experience.

Think it through

A volunteer repeatedly arrives late. Another leader calls him lazy. Before you agree or dismiss the concern, what facts would you seek? How could you hold a clear expectation while learning what is happening?

Put it into practice

Have one ordinary listening conversation with permission. Ask open questions, summarize what you heard, and check whether you understood. Record only your own learning, without names or private details. Identify one assumption you had to revise.

Bring to conversation

• How does God’s image change the way you describe people?
• How can compassion and accountability belong in the same conversation?

What to bring: A brief anonymized reflection showing listening, a revised assumption, and a proportionate response.

Prayer: Ask God to replace contempt and impatience with truthful, attentive love.

Companion video: BibleProject: Image of God. After watching, identify one point clarified and one question to check against the passages.

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Live the faith • Module 5

Explain why Jesus is good news

The eternal Son became truly human, died for our sins, and rose bodily to bring us to God.

Purpose: Understand Christ’s person and work well enough to explain why He saves.

Begin with Scripture

John 1:1–18; Philippians 2:5–11; Romans 3:21–26; 1 Corinthians 15:1–8; Hebrews 2:14–18. Read in context in your NIV Bible.

Be ready to explain the Person at the center

Someone tells you, “I like Jesus. I think He taught people to love each other.” You are glad the conversation is open, but you sense that something important is missing. How do you explain what makes Jesus more than a respected teacher?

Christians can become so familiar with phrases about Jesus that we stop unpacking them. Son of God. Savior. Died for our sins. Rose again. Each expression carries meaning that an interested person may never have heard clearly.

This lesson helps you slow down and explain those truths. You do not need to deliver everything at once in a conversation. You do need a clear understanding of the gospel’s center, so you can speak about Jesus with both simplicity and substance.

The good news concerns a real Person and what He has done. The response it calls for grows from that announcement.

The Son became one of us

Read John 1:1–18. John begins before the earthly life of Jesus. The Word already exists with God and is God. Creation comes into being through Him. Then John tells us that the Word became flesh and lived among us.

The word incarnation names this astonishing truth: the eternal Son became truly human. Jesus did not begin existing when He was born. He also did not stop being God when He entered human life.

Christian teaching therefore confesses Jesus as one person who is fully divine and fully human. He is not part God and part human, or a divine person merely pretending to share our experience. His humanity is real: He grows, becomes tired, grieves, suffers, and dies. His divine identity is real: in Him we meet the Son through whom all things were made.

Read Hebrews 2:14–18. The passage connects His participation in flesh and blood with His saving mission. He shares the life of those He comes to rescue. His ability to help those who are tempted belongs to a genuine human life of suffering and faithfulness.

You can bring weakness and temptation to Jesus without imagining that He observes human life from a distance. He knows our condition without sharing our sin. His compassion has substance.

Pause: Which truth do you tend to emphasize more, Jesus’ humanity or His deity? What becomes harder to explain if the other fades into the background?

His humility reveals His mission

Read Philippians 2:5–11. Paul calls believers toward humility by directing their attention to Christ. The passage moves through His self-humbling, obedience to death, and exaltation.

Jesus’ coming is willing self-giving. The passage’s language about emptying is explained through His taking the form of a servant and becoming human. We should not use it to suggest that the Son surrendered His divine identity and became less than God.

Paul’s purpose also reaches into relationships. The One whom believers confess as Lord humbled Himself for others. His people learn to relinquish selfish ambition and consider the good of those around them.

Still, His saving work is unique. Your willingness to sacrifice time may bless a neighbor, but it cannot accomplish what His death accomplishes. Before following Jesus as your example, you receive Him as your Savior. That order keeps Christian ministry rooted in gratitude and dependence.

Why the cross matters

Read Romans 3:21–26. Paul has established humanity’s need and now explains God’s provision. Salvation comes through Christ rather than through a record of human achievement. God deals with sin in a way that displays His righteousness and makes justification possible.

The cross tells the truth about evil. God does not act as though human rebellion, cruelty, deceit, and injustice are insignificant. Forgiveness is free to the recipient because Christ bears its cost, not because the wrong never mattered.

RHCC’s Foundations gospel lesson gives several biblical ways to explain that saving work. As our substitute, Christ acts for us and bears sin. As redeemer, He brings freedom from bondage. Through reconciliation, enemies are brought into peace with God. In His victory, the powers of evil do not have the final claim. These descriptions help us understand different dimensions of one saving work.

Keep the Trinity in view. The cross is not a kind Son protecting us from a Father who has no desire to show mercy. Nor is it an unwilling third party being forced to suffer. The Father sends in love, and the Son gives Himself willingly. God’s holy love is at work in our rescue.

Every illustration has limits. A canceled debt can help someone understand costly forgiveness. A courtroom can help explain a verdict. Neither picture should become more authoritative than the biblical passages themselves. Use an illustration to clarify a truth, then return to what Scripture actually says.

Pause: If someone asked why God does not simply ignore sin, how would you explain both His justice and His mercy?

The resurrection belongs to the good news

Read 1 Corinthians 15:1–8, then verses 12–19. Paul reminds the church of the gospel they received: Christ died for sins, was buried, was raised, and appeared to witnesses. These are claims about events, not merely statements about what Jesus means to an individual.

Paul refuses to treat the resurrection as an optional addition. If Christ has not been raised, the faith he preached has no saving foundation. Jesus’ bodily resurrection matters because the Savior who died now lives.

His resurrection also opens the future. Later in the chapter, Paul connects Christ’s rising with the resurrection of those who belong to Him. Christian hope reaches beyond surviving a difficult week. Death itself will not have the final word over Christ’s people.

This protects the gospel from becoming a lesson in optimism. We do not tell people merely to stay positive because Jesus’ ideas continue to inspire. We announce the crucified and risen Lord. Confidence grows from His saving work and His life, rather than the strength of our mood.

Explain the gospel as news someone can understand

Begin with God, who made us for life with Him. Explain sin honestly, including your own place among those who need grace. Introduce Jesus as the Son who became human, lived faithfully, died for sins, and rose again. Then explain His call to turn from sin and trust Him.

Take time with the person’s questions. Someone may need to understand why sin is serious. Another person may wonder whether Jesus welcomes someone with their history. Another may struggle with the resurrection. A clear grasp of the gospel helps you respond to the question in front of you without losing the center.

Avoid making a changed life the price of entry. We do not repair ourselves until Jesus finds us acceptable. We come to Him for rescue, and the grace that receives us begins changing us. We will examine that connection more closely in the next module.

You can also be clear without pretending to know everything. A person who asks a historical or theological question you cannot answer deserves an honest follow-up, not a confident guess. Write down the question and seek a reliable answer with your mentor.

Let explanation become gratitude

This week’s practice is a three-minute gospel explanation. Prepare it as though you were speaking with an interested friend, then review it with your mentor. Use ordinary language. Include who Jesus is, what He has done, why it matters, and how a person responds.

Before recording, take a quiet moment to consider what you are explaining. This is the grace on which your own life rests. The truths can be familiar and still deserve fresh attention.

You are learning to offer someone more than religious advice. You are learning to tell them about the Savior who brings sinners to God. Let that give your preparation both care and joy.

Words to know: Incarnation: the eternal Son becoming human. Atonement: Christ’s saving work dealing with sin and reconciling us to God. Resurrection: Jesus’ bodily rising from death.

Think it through

A friend says, ‘I like Jesus’ teaching, but I don’t see why His death or resurrection matters.’ Explain the gospel without reducing it to advice about being kind.

Put it into practice

Record a three-minute explanation for an interested friend: who Jesus is, what He did, why it matters, and the response He calls for. Review it with your mentor for accuracy and plain language. No public posting is required.

Bring to conversation

• What is lost if Jesus is only a good teacher?
• Why does grace reveal God’s justice rather than cancel it?

What to bring: A gospel explanation that includes Christ’s deity, humanity, death for sins, bodily resurrection, and lordship.

Prayer: Thank Jesus for doing the saving work you could never perform.

Companion video: BibleProject: The Messiah. After watching, identify one point clarified and one question to check against the passages.

Open this module’s worksheet

Required article: What is a Gospel? Read the article, summarize its central explanation, and connect it to your gospel presentation.

Live the faith • Module 6

Receive grace and learn to respond

God saves by grace through faith in Christ, and that grace produces a changed life.

Purpose: Explain salvation clearly and help someone distinguish trust in Christ from religious performance.

Begin with Scripture

Ephesians 2:1–10; Romans 5:1–11; Mark 1:14–15; 1 John 1:5–2:2; 1 John 5:11–13. Read in context in your NIV Bible.

Different people need different conversations

One person tells you, “I keep failing. I think God must be finished with me.” Another says, “I know I’m saved, so I don’t see why this habit is such a big deal.” Both use Christian language. Both may need help. A rehearsed sentence about grace will not necessarily address what either person needs.

Understanding salvation gives you a clearer way to listen and respond. You can distinguish the basis of acceptance before God from the evidence of growth. You can encourage a person who is struggling without making peace with sin. You can speak seriously about obedience without presenting it as the way to earn rescue.

This is also personal learning. The way you understand grace will shape your response to your next failure, your next success, and the person whose growth seems slower than you expected.

Follow the movement of grace

Read Ephesians 2:1–10. Paul begins with a condition humanity cannot repair by self-improvement: death in trespasses and sins. Then he turns to God’s mercy, love, and action in making His people alive with Christ.

The order matters. God’s grace initiates the rescue. Salvation does not become available because people have accumulated enough spiritual effort. Faith receives what God gives in Christ. Even the person with a long Christian history continues to stand in that grace.

The passage then moves toward good works. Believers are God’s workmanship, created in Christ for a life shaped by what He has prepared. The changed life belongs within the purpose of salvation. It does not become the payment that persuaded God to save.

That distinction protects against two familiar errors. One person treats obedience as a ladder into acceptance. Another treats grace as permission to remain unchanged. Paul’s account holds gift and transformation together. The God who gives life also gives a new direction for living.

Pause: When you have a spiritually good week, do you expect God to receive you more warmly? When you fail, what do you assume has changed?

Learn words that help you make distinctions

Justification concerns our standing before God. He declares believers righteous through faith in Christ, rather than on the basis of their moral achievement. The confidence of the believer rests in Christ’s saving work and God’s gracious verdict.

Regeneration concerns new life by the Holy Spirit. Salvation involves more than a change of label. God brings life where there was spiritual death and begins to form new desires and a new relationship with Him.

Sanctification concerns growth in holiness. The person who belongs to Christ learns to resist sin, practice obedience, and become increasingly like Him. This growth includes real effort, real dependence, and an ongoing need for grace.

These words identify related realities, not three unrelated spiritual programs. They help you avoid expecting gradual moral improvement to accomplish what only Christ can provide. They also keep you from treating a declaration of faith as though a changed life has no importance.

Read Romans 5:1–11. Paul connects justification by faith with peace with God and access into grace. He also points to Christ’s death for sinners as the demonstration of divine love. God’s welcome does not begin at the moment we become impressive.

The relationship described here can sustain a person who is facing trouble. Peace with God does not mean the absence of every difficult circumstance. It means the saving relationship through Christ within which the believer now stands.

Repentance and faith belong together

Read Mark 1:14–15. Jesus announces the kingdom and calls people to repent and believe the gospel.

Repentance is a turning from sin and self-rule toward God. It includes a changed judgment about what we have been trusting or excusing. It is more than feeling embarrassed about consequences, although sorrow can be part of it.

Faith entrusts us to Jesus. It involves believing the truth about Him and relying on Him as Savior and Lord. Agreement with a set of facts matters, but saving trust is not exhausted by the ability to repeat those facts.

You do not need to imagine repentance and faith as achievements that make grace affordable. They are the response to God’s gracious call. Nor does repentance mean repairing your entire life before you approach Christ. You come because you need Him, turning toward the One who can forgive and renew you.

Prayer can express that trust. It does not work as a formula that saves regardless of what a person means. When helping someone respond to the gospel, make Christ the object of confidence. Give room for questions and a genuine response rather than pressing for words that will produce a reassuring moment for you.

Pause: How would you explain repentance without making it sound like either mere regret or a requirement to become perfect first?

Help the struggling believer look toward Christ

Read 1 John 1:5–2:2 and 5:11–13. John addresses sin honestly, calls for confession, and directs attention to Jesus as the believer’s advocate. Later he explains his desire that believers know they have eternal life.

The struggling person who brings sin into the light may need help moving from self-condemnation toward Christ. You can acknowledge the seriousness of the sin while pointing to His saving sufficiency. Ask what happened, what repentance would involve, and what practical support would help.

Be careful about adding burdens Scripture does not add. The strength of someone’s emotional experience is not the ground of salvation. A person may feel ashamed and still be genuinely repentant. Someone else may feel calm while avoiding the truth. Feelings give you something to understand, not a verdict to impose.

Assurance should direct a person toward Christ and His promises, within a life of continuing faith. It should not train them to inspect themselves endlessly for evidence that their repentance was intense enough. Patient care helps them take the next honest step.

Take self-deception seriously

The person who dismisses obedience needs a different conversation. Ask what they believe grace means. Ask how they understand Christ’s lordship and the new life described in Ephesians 2.

Do not leap from one report of sin to a final judgment about someone’s standing with God. You do not see the heart as He does. At the same time, you can refuse to assure someone that persistent, unrepentant rebellion is spiritually harmless.

RHCC affirms the eternal security of believers in Jesus Christ. Read John 10:27–29 and Romans 8:31–39 alongside James 2:14–17. Assurance rests in Christ; a life of good works gives evidence of genuine faith. Discuss how these passages encourage confidence while exposing the misuse of grace as permission to ignore sin.

Put grace into words that help

Your worksheet asks for two short responses: one to a person afraid God has rejected them, another to someone treating a past profession as permission to ignore sin. Include a question you would ask before offering counsel. Use a relevant passage in context.

Then practice a brief gospel explanation. Listen for anything that suggests rescue is earned, a formula saves, or obedience is irrelevant. Ask your mentor to help you make the explanation clearer.

As you prepare, receive these truths yourself. You can bring failure to Christ without hiding. You can pursue change without trying to purchase His love. Grace gives you reason to be both honest and hopeful, and that combination is something you can learn to offer others.

Words to know: Grace: God’s undeserved favor and generous action. Justification: God’s declaration of righteousness in Christ received by faith. Regeneration: new life by the Spirit. Sanctification: growth in holiness.

Think it through

One person says, ‘I failed again; God must have rejected me.’ Another says, ‘I prayed years ago, so it doesn’t matter how I live.’ Why would the same scripted answer fail both people?

Put it into practice

Write a 150-word response to each person. Include a relevant passage, a question you would ask, and one next step. Practice a 60-second gospel explanation that invites repentance and faith without treating a prayer formula as the saving act.

Bring to conversation

• What grounds acceptance before God?
• How would you explain the connection between faith and good works in Ephesians 2?

What to bring: Two distinct pastoral responses that hold grace, assurance, repentance, and growth together.

Prayer: Bring a real failure into the light and thank Christ for His sufficient saving work.

Companion video: BibleProject: Romans 1–4. After watching, identify one point clarified and one question to check against the passages.

Open this module’s worksheet

Live the faith • Module 7

Live from your identity in Christ

Belonging to Christ gives both security and a reason to keep growing.

Purpose: Build habits and receive feedback without using ministry performance to establish your worth.

Begin with Scripture

Romans 8:1–17; John 15:1–11; Philippians 2:12–16; Psalm 90:1–17. Read in context in your NIV Bible.

What happens when your performance becomes your name?

You finish teaching a devotion and someone says, “That was really helpful.” The comment stays with you all day. The next time, someone asks whether a point was accurate, and you cannot stop replaying it. Their question begins to feel like a judgment about whether you belong in ministry at all.

Encouragement and correction matter, but they can carry more weight than they should. When usefulness becomes your identity, a good result makes you feel secure and a mistake threatens your place.

The gospel offers a firmer ground. Your standing in Christ is a gift to receive, and that gift makes honest growth possible. This module connects RHCC’s teaching on identity with the habits, feedback, and rhythms that help a person mature.

Receive what God says about His people

Read Romans 8:1–17. Paul speaks of freedom from condemnation for those in Christ, life in the Spirit, and adoption into God’s family. These realities grow from God’s action in Christ, not from a record of uninterrupted success.

Union with Christ means belonging to Him and sharing in the saving benefits of His death and resurrection. It is a relationship with the Savior that changes our standing and the direction of our life. It does not make us divine, sinless, or beyond correction.

Adoption describes being received into God’s family. Paul contrasts slavery and fear with the Spirit’s witness to our place as children and heirs. The passage gives you a reason to approach God as Father.

You do not need to rely on a sweeping account of ancient adoption law for that confidence. Read the words Paul actually gives: children, heirs, life in the Spirit. Notice, too, that suffering remains part of the passage. Being God’s child does not guarantee an easy experience or a visible role.

These truths help you respond to failure without making failure your name. You can say, “I was wrong,” “I need help,” or “I have more to learn,” while continuing to trust the Father who has received you through Christ.

Pause: What kind of feedback tends to feel like a threat to who you are? What does that reaction reveal about where you are looking for security?

Growth comes through dependence

Read John 15:1–11. Jesus gives His disciples the image of a vine and its branches. The branch’s fruitfulness depends on its relationship to the vine. His words direct attention to remaining in Him, receiving His teaching, and abiding in His love.

This is personal dependence rather than a technique for spiritual productivity. Prayer and Scripture matter because through them we attend and respond to the Lord on whom our life depends. Practices become distorted when we treat them as tokens we exchange for God’s approval.

Remaining in Christ is also connected with obedience. Jesus does not separate closeness to Him from receiving His commands. The relationship is living and responsive. We trust, ask, listen, repent, and act.

Fruitfulness cannot be reduced to numbers or visibility. Patience with a difficult person, honesty after a mistake, quiet generosity, and a growing willingness to forgive can be real evidence of Christ’s life shaping you. Some of that growth happens where almost nobody notices.

A ministry role can give opportunities to practice these qualities. It cannot substitute for them. A busy schedule may conceal neglect of the very relationship from which service is meant to grow.

Grace makes effort meaningful

Read Philippians 2:12–16. Paul calls believers to work out their salvation while identifying God as the One working within them. The passage includes conduct in the community, including their speech and witness.

God’s action does not make our response unnecessary. Our activity does not make us independent of His grace. We act because He is at work, relying on the power He gives and responding to what He commands.

That helps you distinguish training from earning. You may set aside time to read, ask someone to hold you accountable, or practice a different response when you are frustrated. These efforts can serve growth without becoming attempts to purchase acceptance.

When a rhythm slips, examine what happened. Perhaps the plan was unrealistic. Perhaps a necessary responsibility interrupted it. Perhaps avoidance or distraction needs attention. You can make an honest adjustment without either excusing everything or collapsing into shame.

Pause: Which is more familiar to you: trying to earn God’s approval through effort, or waiting for growth without taking a concrete step?

Let feedback become part of discipleship

The Follow Me lesson on feedback encourages attention to observable behavior. That helps both the giver and the receiver avoid guesses about motives.

Compare two comments: “You don’t care about people,” and “During the discussion, you answered before Sarah finished her question, and we did not hear the concern she was trying to raise.” The second identifies something you can examine and change.

When you receive feedback, listen long enough to understand it before explaining yourself. You might ask, “Can you give me an example?” Then summarize the concern fairly. If the observation is accurate, own the action. If part is unclear or mistaken, discuss it respectfully.

Teachability does not require agreeing with every criticism. It requires being willing to consider whether you need correction. A secure person can investigate a concern without making the whole conversation a defense of their worth.

Make a repair where one is needed. An apology, corrected statement, changed plan, or revised teaching outline gives your response substance. Growth becomes visible through what you do after the conversation.

Build a rhythm that fits a real life

Read Psalm 90. Its heading identifies it as a prayer of Moses. The psalm places human life within the contrast between God’s eternity and our limits, and asks for wisdom in numbering our days.

Your limits are part of the reality you must steward. You cannot read every book, meet every need, and accept every invitation. A workable rhythm respects responsibilities at home, ordinary work, sleep, relationships, and the need for rest.

Begin with a small daily Scripture and prayer practice. Give it a place in a routine that already exists. Add weekly Christian community and a realistic pattern of rest. Choose something you can practice for four weeks, then evaluate it.

Rest deserves attention before exhaustion makes it unavoidable. It can include worship, sleep, recreation, friendship, and quiet. Ask what helps you return to responsibilities with greater availability and clarity. Endless distraction may fill a break without renewing you.

Your worksheet asks you to receive one specific observation and revise something, then draft a four-week rhythm. Keep both practices simple. You are learning to be a person who can remain rooted in Christ while continuing to grow.

You do not have to wait until you feel completely secure to begin. Receive the truth God gives, take a practical step, and invite someone trustworthy to walk with you. The growing ability to learn without hiding is itself a meaningful gift to the people you will serve.

Words to know: Union with Christ: belonging to Him and sharing His saving benefits. Adoption: receiving a place in God’s family. Spiritual disciplines: practices through which we attend and respond to God’s grace.

Think it through

You teach a devotion and your mentor points out two inaccuracies. Your first instinct is to explain why the audience liked it. What would secure, teachable responsibility look like instead?

Put it into practice

Ask your mentor for one specific observation about your work so far. Summarize it fairly, make a revision, and return it. Draft a four-week rhythm with a small daily Scripture/prayer practice, weekly community, and protected rest. Review your real calendar and family responsibilities.

Bring to conversation

• What does your reaction to correction reveal?
• Which habit could help you remain attentive to Christ without becoming a scorecard?

What to bring: A revision after feedback and a realistic four-week rhythm.

Prayer: Ask the Father to help you receive His care and honest correction together.

Companion video: BibleProject: Ephesians. After watching, identify one point clarified and one question to check against the passages.

Open this module’s worksheet

Serve with others • Module 8

Depend on the Spirit and use your gifts

The Holy Spirit forms Christlike character and gives gifts for the good of the body.

Purpose: Discern how the Spirit equips you to build others up.

Begin with Scripture

John 14:15–27; Acts 5:1–4; Romans 8:9–17; 1 Corinthians 12:4–27; Galatians 5:13–26. Read in context in your NIV Bible.

There is room for you to contribute

You watch someone teach clearly, organize an event effortlessly, or care for a hurting person with unusual wisdom. It can be encouraging to see God use someone. It can also leave you wondering what you have to offer.

Some people respond by chasing the most visible role. Others decide their ordinary abilities do not count. Scripture gives a different starting point: the Spirit distributes gifts within a body whose members need one another.

You are learning to recognize a contribution, not manufacture an identity. The goal is to become more useful to others through the grace God gives. Your part can become clearer through service, feedback, and patient attention.

Before discussing gifts, however, we need to understand the One who gives them.

The Spirit is God present with His people

Read John 14:15–27. Jesus is preparing His disciples for His departure. He promises the Helper, the Holy Spirit, who will be with them and teach them. The Spirit’s coming belongs within God’s care for people who will need help.

The Holy Spirit is a divine person. He is not an impersonal atmosphere, a reserve of spiritual electricity, or a feeling we learn to produce. Scripture speaks of His teaching, guiding, distributing gifts, and being grieved.

Read Acts 5:1–4. Peter describes the deception of Ananias in terms of lying to the Holy Spirit and lying to God. Alongside the rest of Scripture’s witness, the passage helps us understand why Christians confess the Spirit’s deity.

Remember the Trinity. The Spirit is distinct from Father and Son, yet fully God. His presence is not a lesser version of divine help. We depend on God Himself, who acts personally and graciously in the lives of His people.

John 14 also needs to be read in its setting. Jesus is addressing the disciples whose witness will serve the church. His promise that the Spirit will remind them of what He said supports their unique testimony. We should not turn that into a promise that every personal impression we receive is infallible.

Pause: When you hear “the Holy Spirit,” do you primarily think of a person to trust, an experience to seek, or a power to use?

Dependence belongs to ordinary Christian life

Read Romans 8:9–17. Paul connects belonging to Christ with the Spirit’s presence. The Spirit leads God’s children and enables the putting to death of sinful conduct.

This means dependence on the Spirit is not reserved for unusual moments. You need His help when you resist temptation, pray through weakness, serve someone you find difficult, and learn to obey a clear command.

You may sometimes experience that dependence vividly. At other times, obedience will feel ordinary and demanding. The strength of an emotion is not a reliable measure of whether God is present or pleased.

Begin with what Scripture clearly calls you to do. Ask for the Spirit’s help, act faithfully, and remain open to correction. Prayerful dependence and thoughtful preparation work together. Studying a passage carefully does not demonstrate a lack of trust in the Spirit who gave the Word.

Gifts are given for the common good

Read 1 Corinthians 12:4–27. Paul addresses variety within unity: different gifts, service, and activities, belonging to the work of the same God. The purpose is the common good.

The body image challenges both superiority and discouragement. One member cannot dismiss another as unnecessary. Another cannot conclude that they do not belong because they differ from a more visible member.

That matters when you explore ministry. A gift that receives attention is not automatically more valuable than a quiet contribution. Reliability, encouragement, practical help, hospitality, and careful organization can make a significant difference to the body’s life.

A spiritual gift is a grace-given capacity for serving others. Christians differ about some definitions and about whether particular gifts continue in the same form today. Your mentor can explain RHCC’s convictions. Before entering those debates, keep Paul’s purpose clear: gifts serve people and build up the church.

Personal confidence does not place someone beyond accountability. If a person claims a gift, it is reasonable to ask whether its use is consistent with Scripture, strengthens others, expresses love, and operates within appropriate church order.

Pause: Who benefits from the role you most want? How would you know whether your contribution was actually helping?

Character and gifting must be considered together

Read Galatians 5:13–26. Paul contrasts life shaped by the flesh with the fruit of the Spirit. His concern reaches into relationships: love, patience, gentleness, self-control, and the way believers treat one another.

A gifted person can still be immature. Ability to communicate does not automatically establish readiness to shepherd. Administrative skill does not excuse harshness. A powerful personal testimony does not settle whether someone can carry a particular responsibility faithfully.

The fruit of the Spirit concerns the kind of person you are becoming. It does not make every believer identical in personality. Patience can grow in an energetic person; courage can grow in a quiet person. Christlike character takes shape within the life God has given you.

As you consider gifts, ask what is happening to your love for people. Are you becoming more attentive to others’ needs, more willing to receive direction, and more consistent when nobody is praising the result? These questions help keep service grounded.

Discover contribution through supported practice

The calling material in Follow Me uses SHAPE: spiritual gifts, heart, abilities, personality, and experience. These categories can help you notice patterns. They do not pronounce God’s final assignment over your life.

You may be drawn toward a need without yet having the skill to address it. You may have an ability that becomes useful in an unexpected setting. Another leader may notice a strength you overlook because it feels ordinary to you.

Ask for observations as well as opinions. “You seem like a leader” is encouragement. “When you explained the instructions, everyone understood their part, and you stayed available for questions” gives more useful evidence.

The empowerment lesson adds an essential principle: a growing person needs both responsibility and support. A good assignment has a purpose, a reasonable scope, clear boundaries, and someone available to help. Stretching a person does not mean leaving them alone with work beyond their readiness.

Prepare one clear service assignment

With your mentor, identify a modest way to help an existing ministry. Choose something that serves real people rather than something created merely to test you. Learn any required procedures before starting.

Write down the purpose, people served, preparation, time limit, supervisor, and boundaries. Clarify which decisions you can make and when to ask. Agree on how feedback will happen afterward.

You might help organize materials for an existing group, assist with hospitality, or prepare a practical activity under a leader’s direction. The value lies in faithful participation and learning, not in how impressive the assignment sounds.

This week you prepare the plan; next module you carry it out. Ask the Spirit to make your attention to people stronger than your concern about being evaluated. Service can teach you things a questionnaire never reveals, and it gives others a chance to help you grow.

Words to know: Indwelling: the Spirit’s presence in believers. Spiritual gift: a grace-given capacity for serving the body. Fruit: the Christlike qualities the Spirit produces in life.

Think it through

Someone says, ‘God gave me this gift, so nobody should question how I use it.’ How do 1 Corinthians 12–14 challenge that claim?

Put it into practice

With your mentor, identify two possible strengths and ask a team leader what they have observed. Choose one modest assignment for module 9. Write its purpose, boundaries, supervisor, expected preparation, and how feedback will happen.

Bring to conversation

• Who benefits from the way you hope to use your gifts?
• What would count as evidence that an assignment needs more training or a different fit?

What to bring: A bounded service plan informed by both personal reflection and another person’s observations.

Prayer: Ask the Spirit for love, discernment, and power to serve without self-promotion.

Companion video: BibleProject: Holy Spirit. After watching, identify one point clarified and one question to check against the passages.

Open this module’s worksheet

Serve with others • Module 9

Serve as part of Christ’s church

Christ joins us to His people, where we receive care and learn to give it.

Purpose: Experience ministry as shared life and responsibility rather than an individual platform.

Begin with Scripture

Acts 2:42–47; Ephesians 2:11–22; Ephesians 4:1–16; Romans 6:1–4; 1 Corinthians 10:16–17; 1 Corinthians 11:17–34. Read in context in your NIV Bible.

You are joining a life already shared

When you begin serving in a church, you step into a network of relationships and responsibilities. Someone prepared before you arrived. Someone knows why a procedure exists. Someone carries a concern you have not yet seen.

It is good to bring initiative. It is equally good to arrive curious. Learning how the body works helps you contribute with care rather than assume that everything begins with your idea.

This module connects the church’s identity with your experience of serving. You will consider why belonging matters, what baptism and Communion communicate, and how ordinary teamwork becomes part of Christian maturity.

The assignment you prepared is an opportunity to practice that belonging. You are serving alongside people whose contributions matter as much as yours.

Christ forms a people

Read Ephesians 2:11–22. Paul addresses people who were once alienated and excluded. Through Christ, they are brought near, reconciled to God, and joined within one household.

The church therefore has its origin in Christ’s saving work. It is more than an organization built around shared preferences. People who would not naturally belong together receive a new relationship with God and one another.

That relationship is both encouraging and demanding. You can receive care rather than carry everything alone. You also encounter people with different habits, histories, strengths, and expectations. Belonging gives opportunities to practice the patience, forgiveness, and humility you have been studying.

When Christians speak of the universal church, they mean all who belong to Christ. A local church is a particular gathered community in which that belonging takes concrete form through worship, teaching, care, service, and accountability.

The language of church as a gathered people is useful. It directs attention toward people and their life under Christ, rather than asking a word’s supposed etymology to prove the whole doctrine.

Pause: When you think of your church, whose names and contributions come to mind? Whose work is easiest to overlook?

Maturity involves the whole body

Read Ephesians 4:1–16. Paul calls the church to humility, patience, love, and unity. He then describes Christ giving leaders who equip the saints for the work of ministry, with the body growing toward maturity.

Leadership serves the body’s growth. It does not exist to make one person the center of everyone else’s Christian life. The passage connects maturity with truth, love, stability, and the contribution of the members.

That gives ordinary service theological significance. When you prepare carefully, welcome someone attentively, explain a passage faithfully, or make another person’s contribution easier, you participate in the body’s life.

Read Acts 2:42–47. Luke describes a community devoted to apostolic teaching, fellowship, the breaking of bread, and prayer, with practical generosity and shared life. The passage gives us a rich picture of the early church. It is not a promise that reproducing a schedule will automatically reproduce every result.

Ask what the description teaches about priorities. People receive truth, worship together, meet needs, and remain attentive to one another. A healthy ministry plan should support that life rather than consume people for the sake of keeping activities running.

Baptism makes belonging visible

Read Romans 6:1–4. Paul connects baptism with union in Christ’s death and a new life shaped by His resurrection. The passage belongs within his argument that grace does not invite continued slavery to sin.

The supplied RHCC Foundations material presents baptism as the believer’s public confession of life with Christ. It announces a rescue received through faith; it does not purchase that rescue. It also connects a person visibly with the community of Jesus’ followers.

Baptism deserves more than being treated as a decorative moment. Jesus appoints it within the disciple-making commission. It invites public allegiance and belonging, even when the person taking that step still has much to learn.

Christians differ on baptism’s recipients, mode, and theological description. Learn RHCC’s practice from your pastor so you can represent it accurately and speak charitably about other traditions. This course does not ask you to lead a baptism independently.

Pause: How would you explain both the importance of baptism and the truth that salvation cannot be earned through a religious action?

The family shares a meal

Read 1 Corinthians 10:16–17 and 11:17–34. Paul connects the cup and bread with participation in Christ and the unity of His body. He also confronts a meal marked by division and the humiliation of people who have little.

Communion includes remembrance and proclamation: the church recalls Christ’s self-giving and announces His death as it awaits His coming. It is also a shared act in which people acknowledge their dependence on Him and their relationship with one another.

The Corinthians’ conduct contradicted the meal they claimed to share. Paul’s warning calls for serious self-examination. It should not become a demand that only people without struggles may participate. The appropriate response is honest attention to Christ, repentance, and regard for His body.

Your mentor will explain RHCC’s wording about Christ’s presence, who participates, and how the church practices the Supper. The goal is informed, reverent participation. Be careful about offering a quick answer to another person’s concern without understanding both Scripture and local practice.

Serve in a way that strengthens trust

Now carry out the assignment agreed with your mentor. Arrive prepared. Ask what the supervisor needs you to understand. Learn people’s names where appropriate. Keep the task’s purpose in view.

If something seems inefficient, ask about it before announcing a solution. There may be a reason you have not considered. You may also notice something genuinely helpful. Curiosity gives your suggestion a better chance to serve the team.

Communicate early when you encounter a difficulty. A supervisor can often help with a problem that becomes much harder after it has been hidden. Reliability includes telling the truth about what you can and cannot do.

If disagreement arises, distinguish what kind of concern it is. A preference, unclear instruction, operational problem, and act of wrongdoing need different responses. Start with the facts, your own responsibility, and a respectful question. Later modules will examine conflict more directly.

Let the debrief become part of the service

Afterward, ask what helped, what made the work harder, and what you should change. Receive specific observations. You can thank someone for feedback even when you need time to consider it.

Use your worksheet to reflect without naming the people served or recording private stories. What did you learn about attention, preparation, expectations, and your response to direction? What did serving reveal about your possible strengths or current limits?

You do not need an extraordinary story to demonstrate that the work mattered. Someone was welcomed, a leader received support, a responsibility was carried, or a difficulty became visible and could be addressed. The body is strengthened through many such acts.

You are learning what it means to belong as a contributing member of Christ’s people. Let that shared life give your service both purpose and a healthy sense of proportion.

Words to know: Church: Christ’s gathered people. Ordinance: a practice Christ appointed for His church. Edification: building others up toward maturity in Christ.

Think it through

A team member’s approach seems inefficient. You have a better idea, but you are new to the team. How could you learn the reasons behind the existing practice, offer a suggestion, and still serve faithfully?

Put it into practice

Complete the supervised assignment agreed in module 8. Ask the supervisor what helped, what created difficulty, and what you should change. Write a brief debrief without identifying the people served. Discuss baptism and Communion practice with your mentor; do not independently lead either as a course assignment.

Bring to conversation

• How does church belonging challenge a consumer approach to faith?
• What did serving reveal that a gifts questionnaire could not?

What to bring: A supervisor’s specific feedback and a reflection that owns both contribution and learning.

Prayer: Thank God for particular people whose service sustains the church.

No additional video required; revisit Ephesians only if helpful.

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Serve with others • Module 10

Offer hope that can face suffering

Because Christ is risen and will complete His work, present suffering does not have the final word.

Purpose: Connect resurrection hope with patient presence and sustainable faithfulness.

Begin with Scripture

1 Corinthians 15:12–28; 1 Corinthians 15:35–58; Romans 8:18–27; Revelation 21:1–8; Hebrews 12:1–3. Read in context in your NIV Bible.

Learn to offer hope without rushing sorrow

A person you care about tells you something painful. Someone has died, a diagnosis has changed the future, or a long-prayed-for situation has become harder. You want to help, but you are unsure what to say.

Christian language can come quickly in those moments. Sometimes it brings comfort. Sometimes a familiar phrase closes the conversation before the person has had room to grieve.

You do not have to explain everything to be present faithfully. You do need a hope strong enough to face what is actually happening. The resurrection of Christ gives that hope substance. Scripture also gives us room to lament, wait, and ask for help.

This module connects Christian teaching about the future with the way we care for people and persevere in the present.

Jesus’ resurrection opens a real future

Read 1 Corinthians 15:12–28. Some in Corinth were denying the resurrection of the dead. Paul shows how that claim undermines the gospel they received and then directs attention to Christ’s resurrection as the beginning of what will follow.

Christ’s people have a future because their Savior lives. The promise concerns the defeat of death, not merely the survival of His influence. Paul describes Christ’s reign and the overcoming of His enemies, including death itself.

Read verses 35–58. Paul explores the resurrection body through contrasts between the present condition and the life God will give. There is continuity with the person who dies and transformation by God’s power. Our hope is embodied life beyond the corruption and mortality we now experience.

The details can stretch our imagination. Paul’s purpose is to ground confidence in God’s ability and Christ’s victory. You can trust the One who raises the dead without claiming to picture everything about the life He promises.

Notice how the chapter ends. Paul encourages steadfast work in the Lord because it is not in vain. Future hope reaches into present faithfulness. Quiet care, patient teaching, and costly obedience matter within the future God is bringing.

Pause: How might your expectations of ministry change if you remembered that visible results in this season are not the whole story?

Hope can make room for groaning

Read Romans 8:18–27. Paul describes creation groaning and believers waiting for the redemption of their bodies. The people who have the Spirit still experience weakness, suffering, and longing.

That matters when someone assumes that strong faith should remove grief. Scripture does not demand that we rename loss as something painless. The presence of hope and the reality of sorrow can belong in the same life.

The Spirit helps in weakness, including the weakness of not knowing how to pray. There are times when someone’s most honest prayer is a few broken words. Your task is not to turn those words immediately into a polished statement of confidence.

Listen. Acknowledge the loss. Ask what support would help. Offer practical care you can actually provide. A meal, a ride, a necessary errand, or a promise to check in can give your presence concrete expression.

You can affirm that God is faithful without claiming to know why He allowed a particular event. Be cautious about assigning a hidden purpose to someone else’s tragedy. Some questions can be explored over time; some will remain unresolved in this life.

God will deal with evil and renew His creation

Read Revelation 21:1–8. The vision centers on God dwelling with His people. Death, mourning, crying, and pain no longer define their life. God’s renewing action reaches the conditions that make this world so grievous.

The same passage also speaks of judgment. Christian hope does not require us to pretend evil never mattered. God’s final justice and His promised renewal belong together. We can entrust judgment to Him while taking wrongdoing seriously now.

This hope is personal and larger than our individual story. God brings His people into life with Him and makes all things new. The future is not secured by our capacity to keep civilization improving or our ability to hold everything together.

Christians differ about the sequence of events surrounding Christ’s return and the interpretation of some prophetic passages. Begin with the convictions that hold Christian hope together: Christ will return, the dead will be raised, God will judge justly, and His people will share life in His renewed creation.

Those convictions give you something substantial to offer a person whose world has become uncertain. They do not give you permission to hurry their grief or make claims about an individual’s eternal state that you cannot know.

Pause: Which promises can you offer confidently? Which questions require you to say, “I do not know”?

Perseverance grows through dependence and help

Read Hebrews 12:1–3. The passage calls believers to endurance by directing attention to Jesus. His suffering and faithfulness provide a reason to continue when discouragement presses in.

The resilience lesson in Follow Me emphasizes a small next act of faithfulness. That can be useful when the whole situation feels overwhelming. You may not be able to resolve every difficulty today, but you can make an appropriate call, prepare the next responsibility, ask for prayer, or take needed rest.

Endurance should not be confused with refusing every limit. A person can remain faithful to Christ while changing a role, seeking medical or professional help, leaving a harmful situation, or acknowledging that a task exceeds current capacity.

Difficulty alone does not prove a calling is wrong. It also does not prove that continuing unchanged is right. Seek counsel about the particular situation. Ask what Scripture requires, what responsibility is truly yours, and what support or adjustment is needed.

The time-and-energy material becomes valuable here. A pattern that repeatedly neglects sleep, family, worship, or honest friendship can weaken the very service you hope to sustain. Planning for renewal is part of responsible life, not a betrayal of commitment.

Practice a response that leaves room for the person

Your worksheet uses a grief scenario. Work through it with your mentor rather than approaching a grieving person to fulfill an assignment.

Begin by acknowledging the sorrow in plain language. Ask a question that permits an honest answer. Offer a specific form of help, with room for the person to decline. If you share a biblical promise, explain it gently and accurately, without making it answer a question it does not address.

A response might include: “I am so sorry. I do not know why this happened. I am here, and I would like to understand what these days have been like for you.” What follows should depend on the person’s answer, rather than a script you are determined to finish.

Then review your own rhythm of life. What helps you remain available to God and people over time? What needs to become smaller, clearer, or better supported?

Christian hope gives you courage to stay present without pretending to control the outcome. The risen Christ is faithful. You can grieve honestly, serve patiently, and take the next wise step while waiting for the future He has promised.

Words to know: Resurrection: God raising the dead to embodied life. Judgment: God’s just reckoning with evil. New creation: God’s promised renewal under His reign.

Think it through

A grieving person says, ‘I don’t understand why God allowed this.’ What can you say with confidence? What should you avoid claiming? How could you offer practical companionship?

Put it into practice

Write a short response that includes acknowledgment of grief, a question, and an offer of help. Use a role-play with your mentor rather than seeking out a grieving person for practice. Review your four-week rhythm and identify one sustainable next step.

Bring to conversation

• How does resurrection change what you expect from ministry now?
• When could perseverance require asking for help rather than pushing harder?

What to bring: A response that combines truthful hope, lament, restraint, and practical care.

Prayer: Bring a real sorrow to God and ask for patient hope.

Companion video: BibleProject: Heaven and Earth. After watching, identify one point clarified and one question to check against the passages.

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Serve with others • Module 11

Become trustworthy with responsibility

Responsibility in Christ’s church requires tested character as well as sound teaching.

Purpose: Connect ministry qualifications with integrity, teachability, and wise conflict response.

Begin with Scripture

1 Timothy 3:1–13; Titus 1:5–9; James 3:1–12; 1 Peter 5:1–4; Galatians 6:1–5; Matthew 18:15–20. Read in context in your NIV Bible.

People need someone they can trust

A person can be articulate, enthusiastic, and effective at getting things done while still being difficult to trust with responsibility. Another person may be less impressive at first but steadily demonstrate honesty, care, and willingness to learn.

Ministry makes that difference consequential. People may build decisions around what you teach. Volunteers may depend on your follow-through. Someone may tell you something painful because they believe you will handle it wisely.

Growing toward trustworthiness is therefore a hopeful purpose. You are becoming better prepared to care for what belongs to Christ. The process includes examining character, developing skill, receiving correction, and learning how to handle disagreement.

You do not have to prove that you have no weaknesses. You do need to become someone who can face them honestly and respond responsibly.

A good desire deserves careful examination

Read 1 Timothy 3:1–13. Paul acknowledges the aspiration to oversight as a good desire and then describes qualifications. The list gives substantial attention to a person’s conduct, relationships, self-control, reputation, and capacity to carry responsibility.

The passage does not let aspiration become its own authorization. Wanting the work matters, but the person’s life also needs to be considered. Oversight requires more than a strong impression during a conversation or a successful teaching moment.

Notice that the qualifications involve ordinary life. How someone treats a household, handles conflict, uses money, or relates to others belongs within the examination. A public ministry identity cannot excuse a private pattern that contradicts it.

Paul also warns against appointing a recent convert to oversight. Maturity needs time and evidence. A gifted person may still need patient formation before receiving a particular office.

These passages describe specific responsibilities in the church. They are not a demand that every Christian fill the same role. Your mentor will help you understand RHCC’s convictions about offices and their qualifications. Whatever responsibility is being considered, the wider call toward Christian maturity belongs to all of us.

Pause: Which parts of a person’s life would you want to understand before entrusting someone you love to their pastoral care?

Sound teaching and sound character belong together

Read Titus 1:5–9. The passage joins a qualified life with holding firmly to the trustworthy Word. A leader needs to encourage through sound doctrine and respond to teaching that contradicts it.

This gives substance to the theological work you have been doing. Caring leadership requires an understanding of the message being entrusted. Warmth cannot compensate for a distorted gospel; doctrinal knowledge cannot justify harsh or unfaithful conduct.

Read James 3:1–12. James treats teaching as a serious responsibility and then addresses the use of the tongue. Words can do considerable harm. A person preparing to teach should take that warning as a reason for care, not as a reason to avoid every opportunity to grow.

Prepare accurately. Distinguish what you know from what you assume. Avoid using a compelling story to make an unsupported claim feel true. When you discover an error, correct it rather than hope nobody noticed.

The integrity material in Follow Me asks whether belief, speech, and conduct agree. That question belongs in ordinary decisions: reporting what actually happened, crediting someone else’s work, keeping an agreement, and admitting when you are not prepared.

Authority is entrusted for care

Read 1 Peter 5:1–4. Peter addresses elders as shepherds of God’s flock. He describes willing service, freedom from greed, and leadership through example rather than domination.

The people served belong to God. Remembering that can change how you use influence. You are not gathering people to secure your importance. You are accountable for the way your conduct affects those entrusted to care.

Clear expectations are compatible with gentleness. A leader may need to make a decision, correct an error, or set a limit. The question is whether authority is being used faithfully for the good of people under Christ.

A growing leader can also accept the limits of an assignment. Being responsible for one activity does not authorize control of every related decision. Clarifying scope protects both the person serving and the people affected.

Pause: When someone questions your decision, what do you feel the need to protect first: their good, the task, or your authority?

Receive feedback as information to examine

Suppose someone says, “During your lesson, you answered two questions before the person had finished asking. I think we missed what they were trying to say.” You may immediately remember how little time remained and how much you wanted to cover.

Those circumstances may be relevant. Begin by understanding the observation. Ask for the example, summarize the concern, and consider its effect. You might discover that your preparation was good but your attention to listeners needed growth.

The Follow Me feedback material uses situation, behavior, and impact as a practical way to describe a concern. The framework can help you keep a conversation specific. It is a communication aid rather than a biblical formula or a guarantee of agreement.

When giving feedback, distinguish observation from interpretation. “You interrupted twice” describes an action. “You do not respect anyone” claims knowledge of a heart and a pattern that may exceed what you know.

When receiving feedback, teachability does not require immediate agreement with every conclusion. It requires a fair hearing and a willingness to make an appropriate change. Return to the conversation with a revision or a thoughtful explanation of what remains unclear.

Respond to the actual kind of conflict

Read Galatians 6:1–5 and Matthew 18:15–20. Galatians calls for gentle restoration and self-watchfulness. Matthew gives instruction concerning sin among disciples and the community’s responsibility when it remains unresolved.

Ordinary disagreements require discernment before choosing a process. A misunderstanding may need clarification. A preference may need patience. A recurring failure may need expectations and follow-up. A doctrinal issue may need study with appropriate leaders.

Serious wrongdoing requires more than an ordinary feedback conversation. Neither these passages nor the language of restoration should be used to hide harm, require someone to face a dangerous person alone, or avoid appropriate church accountability and reporting responsibilities.

Forgiveness, reconciliation, trust, and restoration to a role are related but distinct concerns. Someone’s repentance matters deeply; it does not automatically establish immediate readiness to return to the same responsibility. Wise care considers the people affected, the nature of the conduct, and evidence over time.

For the ordinary conflicts you encounter while serving, the Follow Me sequence can help: clarify what happened, develop an appropriate response, agree on who will act, and evaluate afterward. Do not stop at a pleasant meeting if the underlying issue remains unaddressed.

Practice teaching with accountability

Prepare the five-minute passage explanation described in your worksheet. Use the reading method from Module 2. Identify the passage’s central meaning, explain it in context, and offer an application that follows from it.

Have your mentor approve the setting and review the outline beforehand. Ask for feedback on accuracy, clarity, care for listeners, and your response to correction. Revise something afterward, even if the revision is small.

Discuss qualifications privately with your mentor. The aim is to identify appropriate next steps and growth needs, not to create a public record of sensitive confessions or force a verdict about your entire future.

Trustworthiness grows through repeated faithful responses. Every honest correction, kept commitment, and patient repair can become part of the evidence others see. You are learning to carry responsibility in a way that serves people and honors the Lord to whom the church belongs.

Words to know: Qualification: a biblically grounded requirement for a responsibility. Integrity: consistency of belief, speech, and conduct. Accountability: being answerable to others for entrusted responsibility.

Think it through

After a short lesson, someone says you interrupted questions and spoke beyond what the text supported. Practice receiving that feedback. Then consider how the response would differ if the concern involved serious misconduct rather than teaching skill.

Put it into practice

Prepare a five-minute explanation of a passage your mentor approves, using the module 2 worksheet. Teach it only to your mentor or an approved supervised setting. Ask for feedback on accuracy, clarity, care, and teachability; revise it. Privately discuss qualifications with your mentor without creating a written list of sensitive confessions.

Bring to conversation

• Which qualification deserves patient attention in your life?
• What repair have you made after receiving feedback during this course?

What to bring: A revised teaching outline, observed response to correction, and a private readiness conversation.

Prayer: Ask God for truthfulness in private, gentleness in conflict, and courage to receive correction.

Companion video: BibleProject: 1 Timothy. After watching, identify one point clarified and one question to check against the passages.

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Serve with others • Module 12

Discern your next faithful step

Calling becomes clearer through faithful service, sound judgment, and the church’s discernment.

Purpose: Bring doctrine, observed service, character, and calling into one practical conversation.

Begin with Scripture

Matthew 28:16–20; Ephesians 4:11–16; Acts 13:1–3; 1 Timothy 3:1–7; 2 Timothy 2:1–7. Read in context in your NIV Bible.

Bring the learning into one honest conversation

You began this course with a desire to understand the faith more clearly and explore ministry. Since then, you have examined Scripture, explained central truths, practiced listening, received feedback, and carried a supervised responsibility.

You may feel more confident about some things and more aware of how much remains to learn. Both can be signs of useful progress. A clearer understanding often helps us see the questions we did not know to ask.

This final module brings the learning together. You do not need to produce a dramatic announcement about your future. You need to consider the evidence honestly and agree on a faithful next step with your pastor.

The result can be concrete even when the long-term direction remains open.

The mission belongs to Jesus

Read Matthew 28:16–20. The risen Jesus commissions His disciples under His authority and with the assurance of His presence. The work includes making disciples, baptizing, and teaching obedience to His commands.

The mission is larger than the role you may eventually hold. People need to hear the gospel, learn to follow Christ, and live within His people. There are many ways to contribute faithfully to that work.

That gives you purpose before every question of office or career is settled. You can encourage another believer, help someone understand a passage, pray for a friend, and serve within the church’s life now. Appropriate training and supervision can help those contributions grow.

Read Ephesians 4:11–16. Christ equips His body through differing contributions. The goal is maturity in Him and growth in love. A ministry idea should be evaluated by how it serves that purpose, not merely whether it feels exciting to its creator.

Excitement can be a useful beginning. As a proposal develops, ask who will be served, what they actually need, how the work relates to the church’s mission, and who will help carry it.

Pause: What part of Christ’s mission has become more concrete to you during this course? Where have you seen ordinary service contribute to it?

Distinguish an idea, a need, and a possible calling

An idea is a proposed way to act. You might imagine a group, an event, a teaching series, or a practical service. Ideas can be creative and useful. They can also need revision after you learn more.

A need is a real situation that calls for care. People may lack connection, understanding, practical support, or an opportunity to grow. Discovering a need requires listening and observation. The first solution you imagine may not be the most appropriate response.

A possible calling concerns responsibility being discerned under God’s Word. Desire, character, gifts, skill, opportunity, and the church’s recognition all deserve consideration. A strong idea or a serious need does not by itself prove that you should lead the response.

You may notice a need and help an existing leader address it. You may have an idea that someone else is better prepared to carry. You may discover that your first contribution is to learn, support, or connect people rather than begin something new.

These possibilities do not make your concern less valuable. They give it a better chance to serve people well.

Pay attention to design without demanding a perfect fit

The Follow Me calling lesson offers two sets of reflection prompts. SHAPE considers spiritual gifts, heart, abilities, personality, and experience. WAYS asks about what you love, abilities you can offer, your audience, and sustainability.

Use these as questions that open conversation. They can help you notice patterns in service and identify settings where you may contribute. They do not function as a test that reveals one hidden job God expects you to discover.

What you enjoy matters, but enjoyment is not the only evidence. An important responsibility may be demanding. A skill may need patient development before it becomes useful. Some tasks will remain costly even when they are appropriate.

Sustainability also requires judgment. Consider family responsibilities, work, health, time, finances, and support. Those are real parts of your life to steward. A plan that ignores them may need a different scope or pace.

Difficulty does not automatically disprove a calling. Ease does not establish one. Bring both the enthusiasm and the constraints into prayerful conversation rather than trying to make either answer the whole question.

Pause: What have you learned through actually serving that you would not have discovered by reflecting on preferences alone?

Let the church help you discern

Read Acts 13:1–3. The church in Antioch is worshiping and fasting when the Spirit directs the setting apart of Barnabas and Saul. The passage describes a particular event in the church’s mission. It also reminds us that calling is not merely a private claim separated from the community.

The church’s recognition matters because others can observe what we may miss. They can affirm a strength, question an assumption, identify preparation still needed, or help shape a responsibility so it serves its purpose.

Read 1 Timothy 3:1–7. Aspiration deserves a serious response that includes examination. The question is not simply whether you feel called, but whether the responsibility is appropriate in light of the qualifications and evidence.

Read 2 Timothy 2:1–7. Paul connects strength in grace with entrusting the message to faithful people able to teach others. Faithfulness and ability both matter. Development involves learning, endurance, and a willingness to carry the work carefully.

A pastor’s “not yet” can be disappointing. Ask what it means specifically. Is more theological preparation needed? Does a concern require attention? Would a smaller assignment offer a better opportunity to grow? Seek a clear next step rather than treating delay as a final rejection of your worth.

You can also ask questions if a proposed assignment seems unclear or beyond readiness. Discernment is a conversation in which responsibilities should be named honestly. A wise plan includes support and review.

Review what has actually happened

Gather the work you have completed. You have a starting reflection, a passage explanation, a description of the Trinity, a listening reflection, a gospel explanation, and responses to questions about grace.

You have also practiced receiving correction, considered a sustainable rhythm, planned and completed supervised service, and prepared a short teaching. These pieces give you and your mentor something concrete to discuss.

Ask where understanding has become clearer. Which beliefs can you explain from Scripture with confidence? Which questions remain? Where did a correction lead to a changed response? What did the supervisor observe about your attention to people and your follow-through?

Look for specific evidence rather than general impressions. “I think I grew” becomes more useful when you can say what changed. Be equally honest about something that remains difficult. An unresolved issue can become a purposeful focus for the next season.

Connect the next step with RHCC’s mission

Write RHCC’s mission, “For His Kingdom; For His Glory,” and explain its expanded sentence in your own words. Then show how your proposed contribution would help people believe in Christ, belong to Christ and His people, or become like Christ.

This is more than attaching a familiar phrase to a project. If the proposal is a discussion group, explain whom it serves and what growth it seeks. If it is practical care, explain the need and how the work relates to the church’s life and witness.

The conversation may confirm your original idea, change it substantially, or point toward an existing ministry. Allow what you have learned about listening and shared responsibility to shape how you respond.

Agree on a next step you can carry faithfully

Use the final review worksheet to propose a 30-day next step. Name its purpose, the people served, preparation, permissions, boundaries, supervisor, and review date. Keep it small enough to evaluate meaningfully.

The next step may be further study, continued service, an approved teaching opportunity, or a pause to address a concern. Course completion does not automatically authorize a new ministry or establish qualification for office.

Whatever the decision, the learning has value. You can know God more clearly, handle His Word more carefully, and become more attentive to people. Those are gifts you can carry into home, work, church, and whatever responsibility comes next.

Offer God both your willingness to act and your willingness to learn. Then take the step agreed upon. A meaningful future in service is built through many such responses of trust and faithfulness.

Words to know: Calling: God’s claim on our life and the particular responsibilities discerned under His Word. Discernment: careful judgment seeking faithfulness. Confirmation: recognition supported by evidence and the church’s counsel.

Think it through

You see a need and feel strongly that you should start a ministry immediately. The pastor asks you to join an existing team for a season first. What questions would help you understand that request and test your own motives?

Put it into practice

Complete the final review worksheet with your mentor. Propose a 30-day supervised next step with purpose, people served, preparation, boundaries, supervisor, and review date. If no assignment is appropriate yet, name the learning or growth step instead. No one needs to launch a new ministry to complete the course.

Bring to conversation

• What evidence supports your proposed next step?
• What would help you receive a wise ‘not yet’ without treating it as rejection?

What to bring: An agreed next step, or a clearly named unresolved question, with a date to review it.

Prayer: Offer God your willingness to serve and your willingness to wait.

Companion video: BibleProject: Matthew 14–28. After watching, identify one point clarified and one question to check against the passages.

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